(this will be me in 80 years or so)I have been going on a couple of dates with a really nice gentlemen (who will remain unnamed) But he is everything that I thought that I wanted in a guy. He is so nice, like a little cute puppy kind of nice (that was probably the worst explanation of how nice this guy is but he is nice okay?) Well he asked me to go country dancing and he is a really good dancer, so that is what kind of made us click, then we went to devotional together, and then we went dancing again and again. So basically I thought things were going to work out for once. But then I realize that I don't really like this guy... I just like dancing with him. I am sorry but for me to have an eternal relationship with someone I have got to have more to do than just dance all of the time.
Now I am left with just ignoring his invites to go dancing or tell him something like ".... Gentleman, (I almost said his name) I don't think this is going to work out. I didn't want to lead you on and that is why I haven't been replying to your txts lately. I am really sorry and I still consider you a friend.... Blah blah blah!!! Any way I put it, this is still going to be messy!
I wish things were clean cut and specific! ............ I also wish I could read people's minds .........I wish I could turn invisible...............and I wish that I was only 125 pounds............. but those things just are not going to happen... Please comment if you have any suggestions on how I could let him down slowly.... Gahhhh!
My Dating Life = Awkward
As soon as I title the title of this post I knew it would be a must-read!!! OK... You read my mind, because I have been wondering the same thing throughout my dating life last semester! There are so many NICE guys, but sometimes you just don't like them as more than friends! Even if you kind of wish you did because they really are good and nice and maybe even really cute and you hate to hurt their feelings! But you just don't! There is no chemistry!!
ReplyDeleteI am no help at all. basically what I am saying is, I know how you feel exactly and I wish I knew the answer too! Love you!
PS YOU DO NOT need to be 125 pounds, that made me mad! You are beautiful!
PPS Although I did think your answer sounded pretty good! Something like: "I don't think we are going to work out as anything more than friends..." Its gonna hurt a little no matter how you say it I guess!
ReplyDeleteI hope this guy stalks you enough to find this blog post hahaha. That would make for a clean cut end to a lot of dancing! Hahaha... Careful woman! The interwebs are a scary place!
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